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How To Meet A Lot Of Women


My fellow men ask me questions about " relationships " and "how to become a pick up artist " and equivalent things incessantly .

Nevertheless, honestly, the best answer for all of these kind of questions is "experience."

But obviously the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to meet women?

You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I published my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.

To start with, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between meaningful relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.

And I am not talking about anyone who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.

But, serial dating applied in the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the contrary. Serial dating done to get a better understanding of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you like, and what you like, and what kinds of folk like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.

Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?

"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.

Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.

First of all, most adults never followed their parent's recommendation and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of connecting with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.

Regrettably, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also the fact is that most people usually continue this pattern of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.

We call this "settling".

We call this "compromising".

We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.

You see there are many kinds of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.

Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.

But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.

And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out there and got a lot of experience.

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